The handbags, the shoes, even the obsession for tarot decks and crystals.... It's ALL just a craving for Material Goods - Attempts to fill the VOID!!!!

If you read the title and you are still here, HIGH FIVE!!! Even if you were a bit triggered and that's what grew your curiosity to know what this bitch is banging on about LOL.

Sooooooo many people have disagreed with me regarding this and it makes me laugh. I know I shouldn't. It is NOT compassionate, but it really does bring out the sarcastic teenager in me. I sort of wasn't going to write this, but fuck it. It has to be said.

I just got back from walking my dog, in a small regional town is South Australia which is TINY! The population is like 1200 or something. Anyways, while I was walking her I ran into the lady who owns one of the pubs here. She had just brought a new car and blah blah blah. She showed me a pic of the car. A fucking hot AF candy apple red (my fave colour) porshe. I don't know FA about cars, but as I checked it out, I had to admit that it was a beautiful object, but as soon as I thought this, another thought came into my mind, which spoke louder than my observation. Here it is.

I don’t understand why anyone would want to own such a car.

In a world increasingly driven by consumerism, the allure of owning luxury items, such as an expensive car, can be compelling. However, taking a step back to reassess the true value of such purchases might reveal a different perspective. Why would one go to great lengths, even deprive oneself, to finance a high-end car when a less expensive model could meet the same basic need of transportation? This thought-provoking question opens a dialogue about the purpose and consequences of our material desires.

As we navigate our lives, it becomes crucial to differentiate between needs and wants. THIS IS NOT EASY, BUT DOABLE!!! A car, fundamentally, is a means to an end—a tool for mobility. An expensive car might offer additional comforts and status symbols, but it cannot fill the deeper, existential void that many of us feel. Over time, I have realized that accumulating material goods is often an attempt to mask or temporarily fill that emptiness within us. This realization has led me to embrace a less materialistic lifestyle without conscious effort. It's like trying to satisfy your hunger with chewing gum: it might provide momentary distraction, but it never truly nourishes you.

Instead of investing heavily in material possessions, consider redirecting those resources toward meaningful experiences that can enrich your life and contribute to your growth. Travel, education, and personal development can offer lasting fulfillment and create cherished memories. By prioritizing these life experiences over transient material goods, we can nurture our inner selves and foster a deeper connection with the world around us.

My girls are in their teens now (well one is now an adult - she turned 18 yesterday HAPPY BIRTHDAY MIKALAH my beautiful first born <3) so for the past few years, instead of spending thousands on gifts for Christmas and birthdays, we decide as a family where to vacation. Since covid ended we have had the most AMYZING experiences in Cairns, the Gold Cost X 2, Sydney, PINK in Adelaide, Taylor Swift in Melbourne and Olivia Rodrigo (some shit, I dunno lol). You get the point!!!

Take a second to think about your feelings prior to that last purchase you made that wasn't survival based (food, bills etc).

You feel empty, don’t you?

“The consumption society has made us feel that happiness lies in having things, and has failed to teach us the happiness of not having things.” — Elise Boulding

I do feel empty too, sometimes. To “solve” this, I used to seek temporary solutions. Food addictions, obsessions to crystals and tarot decks, anything spiritual really. I even turned to drugs and alcohol to self medicate. ANYTHING NOT TO FEEL DEPRESSED!!!!

The human being is not comfortable with unpleasant feelings. Its first reaction is to run away from them, thinking that by doing so, it is solving them. To escape this feeling, we indulge in food, we take a nap, we seek company… Or we decide that if we had this or that object, our whole life would simply be better. We fill the void in the easiest way: with materials. Because filling the void with the impalpable requires a lot more work.

As a result, I ended up with a closet full of clothes and shoes, HUNDREDS of tarot decks, too many singing bowls to play and enough crystals to open a crystal shop LOL!! Acquiring material goods doesn’t work to fill the void. It just digs it out even more. It's easy. But useless. Even counterproductive. However, if you want to buy any tarot decks or crystals, do let me know LOL.

But, seriously, what you need is - to go back to simplicity.

“Simplicity involves unburdening your life, and living more lightly with fewer distractions that interfere with a high quality life, as defined uniquely by each individual.” — Linda Breen Pierce

Simplicity seems to be the remedy for many things, if not all. Because at the end of the day, we don’t need much. Just enough food in our stomachs. Clothes on our skin. Shoes on our feet. A few books and maybe a laptop to work with. That’s all we need. And even, we’ve gone beyond need in this enumeration.

Every object you own must serve a purpose. And you don’t need three different colored items to serve one single purpose. One is enough.

Why would you need a luxury car? To impress others? To have more comfort? To be satisfied when you look out the window and see it in the parking lot?

The truth is that it doesn’t add anything to your life. It is a substitute. An attempt to fill the void. Except that by doing so, you are actually deepening that void, because you are moving away from simplicity.

In the fast-paced world we live in today, the pursuit of material possessions often overshadows the essence of truly living. AI don’t know about you, but I believe that redirecting your financial resources towards life experiences rather than accumulating material goods can significantly enhance your overall well-being. This philosophy aligns seamlessly with our holistic healing approach, which emphasizes the importance of nourishing the mind, body, and soul through meaningful experiences.

Consider prioritizing expenditures on travel, food, and books, as these categories offer enriching experiences that transcend the temporary satisfaction of owning physical items. Traveling opens up new horizons, allowing you to immerse yourself in diverse cultures, landscapes, and traditions. It fosters personal growth and broadens your perspective on life. Similarly, savoring high-quality food can be a form of self-care, as it nurtures your body and soul. Sharing meals with loved ones creates cherished memories and strengthens bonds.

Books, whether physical or digital, provide a gateway to endless knowledge and imagination. They can transport you to different worlds and offer insights that contribute to your personal development. By investing in these non-material experiences, you are essentially funding your life's journey, filling it with joy, growth, and unforgettable moments.

At GAIAnostics, we encourage you to embrace this mindset as part of your holistic healing journey, ultimately raising your vibration and contributing to a more enlightened and harmonious world.

In our fast-paced, consumer-driven world, it’s easy to get caught up in the illusion that more possessions equate to more happiness. Yet, as Tenzin Palmo wisely points out, true contentment is not found in material wealth, but within ourselves. This fundamental truth can be a guiding light on our journey to holistic healing and self-awareness.

Reflecting on personal experiences, it's evident that the void often left by the constant pursuit of material possessions is rarely filled. Instead, finding meaning in life’s moments, investing in experiences rather than objects, brings a deeper sense of fulfillment. This aligns perfectly with the ethos of GAIAnostics, which emphasizes holistic healing and raising the earth’s vibration through mindfulness and simplicity. Financing life’s meaningful moments, rather than accumulating more "stuff," allows one to truly experience life in its purest form.

Anthony de Mello’s insights in "Awareness" resonate deeply with our mission. Happiness, he explains, is our natural state, untainted by societal and cultural expectations. The journey to happiness isn’t about acquiring more but shedding the illusions that cloud our true nature. By letting go of unnecessary ambitions, greed, and cravings, we can reconnect with our innate joy. This philosophy underpins the unique healing modalities we offer at GAIAnostics, encouraging individuals to look inward and cultivate a life of simplicity and awareness - so CHECK OUT OUR SERVICES 😀

So, let go of the endless loop of cravings and consumerism. Embrace the true simplicity of satisfying your needs and dedicating the rest of your resources to living authentically. Step outside, engage with the world, and nourish your mind and soul with real experiences.

This is the essence of holistic healing—a journey inward that transforms both the individual and the collective consciousness.